Will gay marriage destroy the gay lifestyle?

you confuse me. just because there is straight marriage it doesn't mean that straight people don't go get drunk and have causal . it's an option, if people want to quit "gay lifestyle" (although i don't like that term it implies that all gay guys like to around when they don't) and get married they can go for it, if they want to go to a gay bar they will... and i'm pretty sure a lot still will.