Why do guys have to.........?

have to buy a girl an expensive ring to propose to the girl, but the girl never propposes to the guy? why sould we have to pay all the money and then go through the nerve wrecking pressure of asking them when alll they have to do is answer? and then on top of that the woman always decide how the wedding should be and get to make alll the decisions. And most importantly, WHY IS THE BRIDE THE CENTER OF FRICKING ATTENTIONLIKE ITS ALL ABOUT HER?WHAT THE HELL?!!! ITS SO STUPID, THE GUY ALWAYS JUST STANDS UP THERE WAITING AT THE FRONT OF THE CHURCH OR WHEREVER THEY'R EGTTIN MARRIED, AND NOBODY CARES, BUT THE SECOND THE GODAMN BRIDE COMES IN ITS ALL EXICITMENT AND CAMERAS GOING OFF EVERYWHERE AND SHE WALKS ALL SLOWLY DOWN THE AISLE WITH EVERYBODY STARING AT HER? UM, HELLO SHES NOT MARRYING HERSELF, IF ANYONE THE GUY SHOULD GET THE MOST ATTENTION, HES THE ONE WHO PAID FOR THE WEDDING RING, THE ENGAGMENT RING, AND WENT THROUGH ASKING HER!?!?!?!?!? SO WHY DOES IT GO DOWN LIKE THAT!?!?!??!?!?!?